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Uncoupling – DIVORCE – the end? Or A Sacred Journey?

Uncoupling – DIVORCE – the end?   Or a Sacred Journey? Let me makes this perfectly clear. There is always sadness when something had to end.   People often talk about the five  stages of grief  – denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.  Get over it.   You are human and so am I. You are going to feel it all!     It’s been proven that we move through these stages and also predictable that we struggle to move through them, afraid of what is to come.     We may want to negotiate and cling staying in the loop of not moving forward.     Bottom line is that we are just trying to stave off having to be sad and move on.   We are afraid of the feelings and afraid of the future.   I just want to say one thing today. Most of us have had hellacious relationships and bad endings.   But just because something ends, it doesn’t mean it’s a horrendous ending.   We grow in every relationship and sometimes it’s time to move on.   Consciously we can do it with lo