Personal Blog~Sharon Stephens - Life Coach

It's been coming up allot lately in all my conversations with Real Love clients and other wise people AND personally for me. We, the smart people of the world, use our intellect to be strong and powerful.  What an illusion this is.  The power piece can be used to deflect the REAL LOVE we need and deserve in situations. Strong people can take allot, but are they really getting the love they need in times of vulnerability or do they stay strong to keep up the facade.  There is a real truth to all of us and that is that we are powerful and also vulnerable.  There is not one without the other.  But if all we show is the power side to protect ourselves, then every time we need love we never let it in. So powerful creators vs vulnerable people.  There is not conflict here. Both are elements of the whole.  We are both.  We can have it all.  We can be powerful and vulnerable.  We have both of those in the WHOLENESS of who...

I once loved someone so much I wanted to prove my love for them I once loved someone so much that I allowed them to tell me I was wrong I once love someone so much that I believed the lie that while telling me that I needed to work harder to take care of them that I believed I was never good enough I once loved someone so much that I believed them when they told me what I needed to do to be a good girl I once loved someone so much that they had control over my life I once loved someone so much that I became angry and afraid I once loved someone so much that I believed all the lies they carried with them I once loved someone so much that I believed they were my God I once loved someone so much that I never saw their pain and took it on as mine I once loved someone so much that I became terrified and became their pain I once loved me so much that I let others see me I once loved me so much that I began to see my own light I once loved me s...