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January 2009

Well, I have truly been the success story. I was getting divorced the first time I went to a Real Love Seminar some four years ago at New Vision (2005) Everything in my life was falling apart. I lost a bunch, especially being a Realtor. I went through the Real Love host training way back when with Reverend Michelle, went to another intensive weekend, continued to grow and now have a thriving, growing, rockin’ out Real Love co-ed group. I still want and yearn to do something with the teen kids. I now find myself 1-2 nights a week visiting with couples, having one on ones talking about the principals. They grow and find happiness……………..WOW……..I am so thankful. During the rough times, I almost lost my son. Ready to put him on a plane to his dad’s, I instead called and got a real love coach. It saved our lives. 2 months with Daphne Rocked!

So now today, I live in a loving relationship, married to a man that firmly believes and practices real love principles. I joke with him and say, “oh, I know you are in love with me” . And to my joy, he always answers, “No, I see you and still love you”. I am filled with joy and the journey has been the most fulfilling ride of my life. Sometimes it’s hard to articulate joy that comes from real love compared to the drama and elation of imitation love to someone who has never experienced the difference. But I know once achieved, one can never feel right going backwards. It glares at you like a freight train coming to run you over……..
We got married Jan 10th at New Vision. I live in peace, I live in harmony and I live in joy. I have real love. AND I am good with that!!!!!!!!!!!! I am living a wonderful dream.

I continue to grow. It’s leaps and bounds in REAL LOVE!
Thank you for it all.
Thank you………………………..to all who come, to all who share, to all who have supported me on this journey!

I feel so lucky to know you all! Sharon

September 2009

I since, am the community organizer for all the Real Love Groups at New Vision Center. I have gotten my certification to be a Real Love Coach. We have scheduled our first Real Love cruise for March 2010. Life is good!

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