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Truth Will Set You Free - on way or another!


Truth Will Set You Free - one way or another! 



I am so happy that my outlook in life is always finding the truth and being grateful that we teach “the truth will always bubble to the top”.  I knew that David and I had struggled hard to keep moving forward in our lives together. We worked diligently forward every day.  The brilliant part it that the truth will always be revealed.   He loved me but really desired someone his own age.  Nothing wrong with that. I wanted someone my own age.  It caused me great pain to never really bond the way a real couple is supposed to. I had that kind of passionate love in my past and it was painful living without it no matter how wonderful we became to each other.  When the truth comes sometimes for you both to finally stop living a lie because we don’t want to lose the perceived safety we both have and a great life we have - the truth can be very messy, devastating, sweep you off your feet, knock you sideways and terrorize your safety.  But the truth will alway set everyone free. Love  does that.  I am free to find a real love and David is free to live real love- with passion and romance.  We all deserve that.  So bless everyone that reads this.  This is what light looks like.  This is where forgiveness is never really necessary if you can actually look at the divine in all things.  Living a lie caused me pain so treacherous in my body I almost couldn’t walk.  I am pain free now.   Divine intervention happens when you least expect it. But it will always happen when you have two people who radically want to live in truth.  You just might not be meant to live together forever.  Our relationship began with the idea that we just wanted to learn to love another human being.  I accomplished that.   To the best of my abilities during those years.  How do I know.  All I want is truth and love for my dear lovely  David Clark.  All I ever wanted was a chance for him to have a good life, a normal life. I am happy for both of our determined efforts to live and grow.  Our mentorship organization this year said they would fillet us open and Lay us out. It did.  And revealed all we needed to do to move to each individual life of our dreams.  Although I don’t know what the future holds I know we are on our perfect paths now.  Less pain and more love. I learned to love and live deeply.  David stood by me in life, birth and deaths.   He helped me heal childhood wounds. He helped me heal core relationships.  He cared and lived deeply too.  I am a better person because he loved me. And so it.

Sharon Stephens
602-405-0144
www.sharonastephens.com



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